Tag: love

  • Love and Loss in India

    Before the Rains, the
    first English language film by Indian director Santosh Sivan, is a
    surprisingly effective, accessible, and beautiful riff on familiar themes. Set in British-controlled 1930s India during a growing nationalist
    movement, the film is about love and self-destructive ambition in the
    face of a rapidly changing country.

    Despite the two-cultural-groups-that-just-don’t-understand-each-other
    formula, which you can find in the "Oscar-pandering" section of your
    local video store, I was surprised with how even-handedly the film was
    written. I’ve always been a bit bothered by the ease at which
    Hollywood films of this type may be distilled down to misunderstood-saints-clad-in-brilliant-sterling-silver
    versus the incorrigibly wrong/frustrating adjacent cultural group.
    Before the Rains,
    by contrast, does an exceptional job of humanizing
    both sides. Sivan certainly injects his own ideas, but leaves
    plenty of room for viewers to draw their own conclusions.

    The success of the film is
    rooted in its simplicity. The photography, characters,and events
    fit perfectly into a concrete theme that is repeated throughout. Clocking
    in at 98 minutes, it feels streamlined and well edited, sustaining a
    well constructed level of tension until its satisfying conclusion.

    A cinematographer-turned-director,
    Sivan paints a pretty picture. HIs mastery of photography is dramatically apparent from the
    first image of sweeping countryside. It is one of the most visually
    masterful films I’ve seen since the tragically mediocre Assassination
    of Jesse James
    .

    While it remains to be seen
    how well Before the Rains will perform in the box office, it
    undoubtedly represents the first trickle of a greater overlap between
    Indian and American cinema. Baliwood produces far more studio
    releases than Hollywood does, and they are increasingly being targeted
    at international markets, particularly the English speaking world. Before the Rains isn’t flawless, but if it’s an indication of what’s
    to come, I think we’re in for a real treat.


    Before the Rains opens on Friday, May 16th at Landmark’s Edina Cinema.

  • Leave me alone… I am trying to sleep

    I used to think that when I was up at night and my hubby was snoozing, rubbing his back was a nice thing to do.

    Guess it’s not only not nice, but it’s annoying.

    All this time I thought I was being little miss affectionate, but instead… I have been waking up my partner when he is just trying to get some deep sleep.
    I never knew this until today.

    Also I never realized that when I am in a deep sleep and my husband does not WAKE me up to kiss me goodbye, he is not doing it to be mean. He is just trying to let me stay in that pleasant, peaceful world where we sleep like babies.

    Who knew? I didn’t, but I do now.

    All of the people that advise you before you get married to never
    go to sleep angry and always kiss your partner before YOU fall asleep, they got the first part right; but if your partner is in a deep, peaceful sleep and you don’t wake them up for a big smooch, this doesn’t mean you don’t love them. It just means you are being considerate — at least in OUR case.

    There is nothing like affection from your partner (when he or she is awake). I was on the receiving end of that deal this morning, and even though it’s cloudy and cold outside, I feel very warm and fuzzy on the inside. 🙂

    Good luck with the golf game, Honey. I promise from here on out to only kiss you when you are wide awake!

    Hey, you asked for it, Mister, and I KNOW whether you are really sleeping or you’re faking it.

  • Happy Valentine's Day — not just today, but every day!

    I for one think that to have one day to tell the people you care about how much you love them is nothing more than an opportunity for stores to raise the price of flowers and chocolates to make up for the 364 other days when we don’t give our loved ones a special something to brighten up their day.

    Don’t get me wrong; I think having a day dedicated to Love is a great idea, but I believe that telling the people in your life how much you care about them should not just fall on Valentine’s Day.

    So to those of you who felt the pressure to go out and pay more for flowers and chocolates to bestow on your loved ones… I have an idea for you.

    Save some money and wait for all of the Valentine’s Day Hype to wear off. Then give the people in your life a box of divine chocolates or a beautiful floral arrangement when they least expect it.

    I could be wrong on this, but chocolate tastes wonderful and melts in your mouth any day of the year, and flowers are always appreciated, especially on a day when you least expect it.

    Much love to my husband, kids, and Louie (the family dog) — all of whom make every day Valentine’s Day!