I used to think that when I was up at night and my hubby was snoozing, rubbing his back was a nice thing to do.
Guess it’s not only not nice, but it’s annoying.
All this time I thought I was being little miss affectionate, but instead… I have been waking up my partner when he is just trying to get some deep sleep.
I never knew this until today.
Also I never realized that when I am in a deep sleep and my husband does not WAKE me up to kiss me goodbye, he is not doing it to be mean. He is just trying to let me stay in that pleasant, peaceful world where we sleep like babies.
Who knew? I didn’t, but I do now.
All of the people that advise you before you get married to never
go to sleep angry and always kiss your partner before YOU fall asleep, they got the first part right; but if your partner is in a deep, peaceful sleep and you don’t wake them up for a big smooch, this doesn’t mean you don’t love them. It just means you are being considerate — at least in OUR case.
There is nothing like affection from your partner (when he or she is awake). I was on the receiving end of that deal this morning, and even though it’s cloudy and cold outside, I feel very warm and fuzzy on the inside. 🙂
Good luck with the golf game, Honey. I promise from here on out to only kiss you when you are wide awake!
Hey, you asked for it, Mister, and I KNOW whether you are really sleeping or you’re faking it.